I was subconsciously aware of what he was doing while in my dream, and was okay with it, it felt like, but nothing was blatantly said. to get this pain out of the unconscious and into consciousness… which is precisely what the dream is serving to achieve). Jumping on a river or a stream of water indicates that you are trying to get rid of some situation that causes you stress. I just woke for bout 2 hour sleep and wake me up the bad dream with my daughter wo son and one neist as we in big boat and when going head home the boat starting awhile bout half of the middle of the ocean ocean already. If you saw someone else standing in the water, this dream represents fear you have about this person’s life. My children are my life. The mentor said they were alright, but I didn’t think so, so I ran out to get them. When considering the meaning of your water dream, learn a bit about the various theories about the meaning of water in dreams. While at the moment it is a dream of the future, I certainly think that mothers should be supported to heal in our culture and thus break the chain of abuse. If it means emotion/tears, the unconscious, the Mother, the flow of life… you must intuit. I went and looked down and it was a bathroom. Now that you are in a safe and loving family you are safe enough to heal whatever pain harks back to early childhood or other losses along the way. P.S.- No im not suicidal, just am fed up with the way I feel during the dreams. Child falling. As he gets in his older ages it is more likley to happen again. I tried so hard to get to her but it seemed like every obstacle got in my way. While the past contains terrible sadness, this dream is not a harbinger of the future so much as an opportunity to come to terms with the past and into greater life and joy in the present moment. Floods are outburst of feelings. The summer house (a place for fun) has a deep well—a symbol of the unconscious and also of the Mother/feminine principle. whatever consciousness one has before one is born into this world of attaching and losing, of love and life and death). So… please do read through the other dreams as you will see themes that relate to your own, and ways you might think about it. The children might represent the child parts of you, those that are struggling to come into full consciousness and not “drown” into the depths of the unconscious. Please read some of the other dreams for more hints, and for now try to imagine that you are not alone, not in your pain, not in your struggle, not in your wish to protect and raise your children. Something I have noticed in a lot of those dreams is a door. This dream is going to be on my mind for a while. If you still have questions after you read a bit more, leave another comment and we’ll take it from there. I have 2 sons 11&7. In this dream I am at someone house. So I sat on the ground holding my son. Their were my sisters n her friend an other people standing down their around him. Be patient, but put in the effort. I hate this dreams there so hurtful please help calm myself… Thank you. Mechelle April 21, 2013 at 2:27 am [edit]. I am still distraught regardless. (COLLECTIVE/OTHER’S KIDS) TRYING TO SAVE OTHER PEOPLE’S KIDS (WATER IN WAREHOUSE, WIRES), Quinton January 1, 2013 at 7:32 am [edit]. Then I woke up. The “water is high” perhaps meaning feelings are very big and menacing. I’m being chased, completely terrified in my dreams. Perhaps there is no official meaning, but we are story-makers so we make dreams up a a natural thing; and we are worriers, it helps keep us alive and helps us protect our children. Culturally, water is often associated with purification and transformation. Another thing to consider is what your own life was like when you were five; particularly if you felt somehow left out of the family, or if there were separations or losses in the family when you were that age. I looked at the terrible huge wave coming at us. The dream really terrified me, and I have been looking for an explanation for weeks now, but have not found anything that makes sense. It doesn’t matter if our government won’t pay for it (although I hope it will), we the parents must make it right by giving loving kindness rather than demanding some sort of “justice” from lobbied up governments that stagnate with infighting while people like you suffer. Those who swim like a fish in the water and have fun in the pool are at peace with themselves and their emotions.If the dreaming feels uncomfortable or is afraid to drown, he rejects his emotional side or individual feelings. Perhaps you do not feel secure in this relationship and the way the children are treated is a symbolic way to understand how you feel. As a psychologist I know I learned to take care of my parents’ emotional needs as a kid, so I would support your mom to get support from grown-up members of the family, or a therapist or a friend so that you don’t have to figure out your mom’s emotions, nightmares, etc. Dream Meaning Jumping Into Water. I am scared I am pushing him away. My son was in there so I jumped in immediately grabbing the shirt and he is rolled up like in a fetal position in complete rigor mortis with his eyes open all white, blue, and dead!!!!!!! At the same time I never told my parents until two years ago as part of my healing. Chasing a boy might symbolized love for the male aspect, the golden child or beloved boy (did you have a brother of whom you were envious? Maybe they got into some kind of trouble and you feel like you need to help them get back on their feet but you don’t know how to do that. The well (or also the well-spring) are symbols of birth and this could be the birth of a new you, or a new level of consciousness. This would make sense given the symbols in the dream, and it would make sense that it would all be terribly confusing for you if the trauma your body carries, which was triggered into consciousness by having your own babies, originally occurred at a time before we even have memories in the way we think of memory as grown-ups (around 18 months and older). I seemed to be very scared in my dream about this. It seems like here recently they have become more frequent but has kept around the same amount of intensity. Next the body of water is a collective image of the unconscious with these evolved aspects safe and in harmony with the environment. We all need to wake up, but in our own good time, and gently, and maybe in the arms of the great Mother that is Divine, or Nature, or God depending on your lexicon. Not the same door but often it involves me trying to secure a door so that they can’t get in and every time there is something wrong with the door. I love my son unconditionally and my worst fear would be (as all parents) to lose him. (This place did not look familiar at all). drive badly, neglect children) is not viable. The kids keep being okay, but the dream reads like an attempt by the unconscious to heal trauma of the past. When I turn around I realize that my son was floating in the water. Hi my name it’s Wanda and I’ve been having alot of strange dreams lately but i can’t remember most of them i just know i feel horrible when i wake up. Jumping into a lake, pond – you will gain an enemy. I’m sorry that your mom’s anxiety has now become your anxiety in your dreams (even if you are “happy” about it, that could be that you love your mom so much and are trying to help her feel better). Jung used to say something to the effect: that which we cannot be conscious of materializes and meets us as our fate. Are you a swimmer or a beach lover? And it’s the cold water that make my daughter let go and scream her lungs out and my sons car seat I can’t get through the car door. til the yaya joined me to chase her, the yaya ran passed me but still can’t keep pace with my daughter. The next part of my dream is everyone is near a creek I dont see our car but our clothes where not wet then i saw 3 cars pull up and people jumping out jumping into the river. Thus it fascinates me that you are a mom who served in the army (you’re tougher than myself, i imagine—and hat’s off to you). I just cry for hours every time this dream occurs. The feeling I had was it was not deliberate of me and perhaps divine intervention helped me by accidentally putting that window down for centrifical balance of the vehicle. % of people told us that this article helped them. Dreams are magical and if you realize you are having one you can fly and have the ability to rescue your child. I’m sorry that you’ve been waking up crying, but I suspect these dreams are more about your own past and your own traumas than about your actual child now. My sons in his bed sleepin away all my babies are fine I wake my husband up. Was itdirty or clean? While your doctor wanted you to see a specialist and you didn’t go, perhaps your unconscious fears that you or your kid might benefit from some help (and thus you are reaching out here). The near drowning of your child in the dream might suggest that you feel overwhelmed by parenting (it is a big job) but also that you might have had some emotionally overwhelming experiences when you were very young. I am on well my way to my breaking point about these dreams. While I cannot provide an in-depth interpretation of your dreams, perhaps something like the tragedy of Romeo & Juliet is at work here? If you are impatient, you can scroll down quickly to dreams about 3 year olds and they are likely to be helpful, and also you will see such dreams are fairly common and you are not alone in having them, If that doesn’t quite do it, the dreams about children dying might also prove helpful: http://privilegeofparenting.com/2013/08/04/nightmares-where-children-die/. Throwing or pouring water is a premonition of a possible loss or theft. What could these mean? The ship is sinking, symbolic of the bigger self that looks like it is grand and strong, but has been torn below the surface (the assault, the stabbing in the second dream). Anyhow end up back indoors relaxing. I can’t remember if my fiance was there. It was so graphic. And maybe from happy and awake we can truly “wake up” to whatever mystery (beyond my pay grade to speculate on that) cooked up our “reality”, Certainly wishing you Sweet Dreams (and a better waking life too). I had a dream that was a bit disturbing to me last night. If there happened to be trauma, losses or injuries within your family when you were a child, or even in your own parents’ childhoods, then this dream might also make sense as we try and deal with the river of ongoing life across generations and different points of view. Hi Bruce, His mom runs our so I run just to get my son because in my head he wasn’t involved because I knew he was just sitting and watching. Sounds like some repressed feelings, and even though the floor is firm footing, there is some emotion connected with it. I am hoping that you can provide insight for me as you have so kindly done for others experiencing these nightmares. But the people I most vividly remember are my mom, older sis and grandma with my 2 yr old nephew. I picked him up out of the water and I just was crying so hard And I then laid him down to do CPR and he woke up and then that was the end of my dream. My child’s alive. It sounds like you are doing things right, after terribly wrong things happened to you—my hope is that time and self-expression and eventual forgiveness (which does not in any way excuse the abuse) may conspire to help you become increasingly safe and free within your own Self. AND ONE NEIST ONE DAUGHTER MY ELDEST BOY WAS 8 SECOND BOY 6 3RD IS GIRL 4 Y OLD MY NEIST IS 3. Last night I had a dream that a little girl and my daughter jumped in a very deep body of water and they were doggy paddling and then my daughter had this look of despair and slowly went under the water, I knew I needed to jump to help her, but didn’t do it. If we show up for all our kids we break the cycle of abandonment and hurt. All the sudden my son was gone. While it is essential to keep our children safe, it is also interesting to consider multiple possibilities in interpreting dreams, including that dreams about our children may be symbolic dreams about the children we once were ourselves, and how safe that “inner child” does or doesn’t feel right now. I was having coffee with the manager in his office when I “remembered” about my kid (something that is defnitely not likely to happen). Well I had a dream at first I was with my dog me and her woke up in the middle of the city by a bus stop station I remember seeing my father after that he was healthy just working forgot what he said anyway went to the pawn shop I remember taking a necklace that was easy to take and the lady screaming but me and my dog got away we was taking a look at it next thing I know we by the great falls just a couple blocks from downtown and I was with my sister and my daughter and my dog when we was about to cross the bridge we seen the water passing over the bridge but the bridge was different normally it’s straight to go across the fall not anywhere close to the rapid flowin river towards the fall but this time it was across the river it was like a half a inch over the wood planked bridge we we walk towards it and I’m like na lets go back and when we was walking back to land my daughter just let go of my hand and vanished in the water I’m like What the hell where she go is she at the bottom and instantly woke up out the dream… My thoughts after reading a couple things where karma. This causes me to never want to sleep. Every dollar contributed enables us to keep providing high-quality how-to help to people like you. In this sense your mother and father, and the fate they represent, name you and you yourself might be associated, in your own unconscious, with something potentially destructive that sits high up between two oceans. I am sorry that I cannot keep individually repeating the same basic ideas, even if all these nightmares break my heart and disturb my own sleep. I woke up. Nevertheless, it seems possible that these dreams are about your inner feelings, particularly about the past/childhood, symbolized by your children. She fell into the sea, and started drowning. Drowning and water could symbolize a sort of return to the womb, to an unconscious state of being. Still, they do the hard work, the stuff connected to earth and foundation and they are the hard-working but unappreciated part of you—again we all can related to working hard while feeling unseen, misunderstood or unappreciated (where the ocean unites us, but threatens to harm us in our individuality we are not alone, but we are a bit at sea). Symbolically, sometimes the child self (or our identification with the child self) has to perish and disappear in order for us to become fully grown-up. The boardwalk crumbling might signify your world crumbling, particularly parental divorce, trauma or loss for you. We couldn’t get out and darkness came quick my youngest went out of sight first then my 9 year old but before he disappeared completely he grabbed my hand and then I was succumbed to darkness. then last night I dremt that my son was missing fir a week and a half then I was in some deep water and found my son upside down with his foot stuck holding him under I freed him and took him out of the water and my partner gave him resusitation and he came back to life what do they mean this one also woke me up scared. I grab her and I know it is too late, she is dead. At this point I didn’t try and fight I just allowed it to swallow me and then I had this huge grasping for air. Starting to panic I go outside. Do you not know how to swim? My son is 11 months old by the way. A pity not all parents have this bond xxx. I went under the water and she was below me and I was able to grab her with my right hand and pull her limp body up to the edge of the water line where there was a man, probably from the car behind me that pulled her out to safety. But I didn’t stop it because it began to turn me on. In this way we may begin to realize how we are all connected, something our nightmare-making minds cannot really grasp but our loving minds knew was there all along. I jumoed down in the water an it was like my son wasnt even at the bottom of the pool it was like he was floating on the water. i had three dreams and in all the dreams i saw a girl child of around 3-5yrs drowning and then dies. I pulled the stroller with the boy out and realized my daughter got out. The second most common theme is falling or flying. Hopefully now they will stop. How do I interpret a dream involving floods? The “bad guy” is a potential symbol of your own personal power (that you may tend to project onto others, perhaps men, and then feel angry and frightened that you feel powerless. As we are getting ready to leave my son runs off following the boy outside Immediately I take off running after my son outside and I am then standing at the lake where I used to go every summer as a child. They are, if not random, more likely to be ways of remembering past trauma than crystal balls into pending doom. You are on a wooden deck over the water, which is like a ship in some sense, a way to navigate the water, but this deck is still attached to land, and thus cannot be on the sea without being ripped apart. Plz reply here. Herein lies the conflict within your psyche (or maybe I’m off on this, just wanting to encourage you to think deeply and creatively about your own dream): you want to be a great mom, but you also want to be true to yourself, your grown-up needs, etc. Cone to find out he also tried to molest my brother. In your dream you allow the darkness to swallow you up, and this might be a signal that whatever pain you have of the past, your mommy self who you are now has a grip on your child selves (symbolized in the dream by your children) and then you wake up, which could mean that you are coming into a more conscious relationship with your own sorrow. Still working on figuring out what this dream means. Maybe you can “return to the dream” in your active imagination, striving to dialogue with everyone and everything in your dream as aspects of yourself, searching for your “lost self” in the ocean of your Great Mother Self. Next would be a variation on this, such as if the dream symbolically represents a situation. Usually it’s one son in a dream at a time (I have 3 boys, 9, 3 & 4). Finally, the ice cold water might be a symbol of coldness, for example if you felt your mom wasn’t a big hugger or touchy-feely sort. In your dream the “brother” would be the male part of you who could help, and the new mother and father could be the parents not that you had but that you are becoming. I swore to myself that I would be a different Mother and while I have done things differently, I have made mistakes along the way and I am trying very hard to fix my attitude. An i yelled to someone watch him so he dont run into the pool. It offers up a prayer in there, which whether we say it in Tibetan or not, is really just the wish that no sentient beings suffer (including ourselves). 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